your magelo aint opening for me somehow. but from what i understood ya using some cultural - upgrade that to elegant asap. its a nice boost, ya mainly need porous loams for it. and a gm smith of your race of course. also use exalted (easy to make) or sublime augs. (check eqtraders for recepies, name is exalted symbol of xxx or sublime symbol of xxx). than replace your anguish armor step by step with sof tier4 gear - or what may come in sod, should be even better than that.
as for wep, i assume ya use a boff - ya wont find anything better groupwise atm, this may change with sod (and yeah, i HATE it, nm what ppl say
). if your guild raids demi try to get eulogy, its one of the best tank swords ever.
as normy said, use augs. there are plenty, some not very hard to get. check galelors sticky here for inspiration.
gl and wb
c.
p.s. i remember an ironwind somehow, its olts from the nameless here under a new name (caero). i was more or less active at the old original pally boards years ago. ya been there?